Bullying on Bleach Gotei

I'll just go ahead and remove kiriko from Skype now then and save her the troublewont be the first time I stop talking to someonenot even the first time I stop speaking to kirikoexpecting everyone to get along with everyone is an unrealistic goal and you're setting yourself up to be disappointed—conflict breeds creativity and people are at their most productive when there are obstacles to overcomeWhat kind of adults do you expect to grow up into when you buckle at the least bit of opposition?

maybe we live in different worlds, but this is an online internet anime roleplaying site. to me, the cost of avoiding conflict is literally the slimmest amount of compromise that I can imagine. far less than the compromise needed to get by day to day. unless you go around axing everyone in your life who takes even the slightest bit of effort on your part to get along with? simple things like empathy and literally NOT doing things. like it's sub-effort. it's literally not going out of your way 9/10 times.

'grow a thicker skin' is among the laziest attitudes when dealing with something like this, it's childish. how about be mindful of how people may be effected by what you do. is that a hard thing? I don't get why it's a hard thing. i thought everyone learned this in school at early ages. is it really that taxing?

the greater point of why is that if takes you almost no effort to have a large positive impact, or avoid a larger negative impact on someone, why WOULDN'T you? do other people matter so little : S?

Jian, at this point we have to accept that some people straight out do not want to be nice.

The internet offers them enough freedom to do and say whatever they want and that's exactly what they will do. Here on BG, we have the opportunity to take their freedom by punishing them for what they did, and at this point it's the best thing we can do.

Begging for people to be kind and show humaneness is an unrealisable thing to ask for online these days. Unfortunately. :/

(I'm not being pessimistic! I'm a realist.)

maybe we live in different worlds, but this is an online internet anime roleplaying site. to me, the cost of avoiding conflict is literally the slimmest amount of compromise that I can imagine. far less than the compromise needed to get by day to day. unless you go around axing everyone in your life who takes even the slightest bit of effort on your part to get along with? simple things like empathy and literally NOT doing things. like it's sub-effort. it's literally not going out of your way 9/10 times.

 

'grow a thicker skin' is among the laziest attitudes when dealing with something like this, it's childish. how about be mindful of how people may be effected by what you do. is that a hard thing? I don't get why it's a hard thing. i thought everyone learned this in school at early ages. is it really that taxing?

 

the greater point of why is that if takes you almost no effort to have a large positive impact, or avoid a larger negative impact on someone, why WOULDN'T you? do other people matter so little : S?

idk jian

depends

I'm pretty sure I'm still gonna say "grow a thicker skin" if I feel like the person is just being a bitch and being a colossal complainwhore, rather than someone who's actually offended/hurt by something someone did.

for sure, but someone claiming offense over nothing isn't really what I'm talking about. the point isn't to be ruled by the sensitivities of others, but to find a comfortable middle ground, not to LIKE each other because lord help me we can't, but to at least co-exist peacefully.

That is the follow up if you don't care to try, haha.

do other people matter so little : S?

And if you don't care? Then prove your apathy. You don't have to be nice. Just shut up.

Can I get back to writing yet?

That last line sums up my feelings very well. This drama is killing everyone's muse. ~.~
I think at some point, most people would just like to leave this shit behind, but they'd miss their characters and the amazing writers here too much. I hope we can get this all solved quickly and these dramas won't break out every 3 months now. It's exhausting for everyone. x.x -le sigh-